User Profile

After nine years of my life, my previous relationship has stopped an intimate partnership and has taken on the dynamic of friend and roommate. The transition was really not that hard for me, because my relationship with him had become just another task on my list. I am grateful that it is only some days that I hate him and want him to go die in a fire, but most days, we do our own thing and don't get in each others way.

Kerai in japanese means retainer or servant, and that is more how i view myself in this world. I am not submissive if I define myself to most others definition of the word. I do have an assertive personality. While yes, I am a dork and shy when put into new situations, when I have been given clear instruction and direction, stand back and let me get the job done! I have met many Dominants that find aspect of my personality a turn off, along with the fact that I am not looking to be in sexual service and they like to tell me that I am not a submissive and therefore unattractive to them. Which, yes, on some levels hurts, but it is their loss, since I am a valuable asset!

So I have taken to identifying myself as a Servant since I am a bossy service oriented bottom girl and it is a label that rings true with me.

I am a fulltime student, and I am currently pursuing a degree in Chemical Dependency Counseling. I am very interested in Behavior Theory and Operant Conditioning.

I am also a fulltime employee, supporting three wonderful managers for a Community Management organization. There are days I love my job, and there a days that my loyalty to those three people are the only thing that keeps me coming into the office.

I am privledged to have a dog, a pitbull mix, whom I love and yes, he is my furbaby. I cannot and will not give him up he is the reason that i volunteer at an animal shelter and I am very vocal about breed restrictions.

So here I am, documenting my journey along this path to service.

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